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Friday, January 18, 2013
THE END OF THE LINE
Contemplating the profession of so many girls I know, I stopped yesterday to wonder what exactly is the end of the line for an escort - or is there any, really? Many years ago while sitting in the kitchen of a big place with a very old man who was the friend of the owner, the wise one regaled me with these words: "These girls are like a dinghy out on the ocean....with no sextant...and no idea where they're going." I laughed quietly at his observation and then listened on as he broke it down: "Once they have a hundred bucks in their pocket, they're gone to spend it on God knows what! And when the money's gone? They're back for more!"
Seems like existentialism defined - and a plan with very little thought behind it. But me? I'd like to think there's a grand scheme to all this...and that we give the girls too little credit when it comes to carving out a path in life. Or maybe not. Maybe they simply are hedonistic dinghies chasing their tales.
Whatever...there are - and have been - paths carved and lives laid out after escorting. One girl I used to know got married and became a realtor. I looked her up on the Internet a few years ago and saw a picture of somebody I barely recognized! Older...much heavier...but there she was hawking apartments. Go figure!
Rather than becoming career girls (doesn't really happen very often despite the bull shit protestations I've heard all too many times), marriage is more often the end of the line. And marriage to a customer at that. Is the Pretty Woman scenario real or fake? Well...the odds are against it (obviously) as the girls see a division of men over time and only marry or hook up with one. But surprisingly to some, they will find a life mate in that division. Whether that arrangement is organic and/or functional is besides the point. A girl finds a guy and reaches the end of the line - if not permanently...at least temporarily.
I talk all this bull shit today because I've been contemplating my own path in this business now that there really isn't very much business for me to contemplate in the first place. To think of how busy I used to be - and how idle I am now. Mind you, I'm not complaining. I'm still relishing the idea that I don't have responsibilities every half hour for 18 hours a day. But now I have time to think and plan - and ponder should there be an end of the line for me and the escort industry? Friends are filling my head with what they think my next move should be...and I'm still about sitting back and watching the History Channel or waiting for Spring when long bike rides and car rides (which I'll be able to do) will be in the offing.
Anyway...whichever way it goes...bottoms up to everybody's end of the line, a point at which we arrive at our destination and hopefully one that's satisfying if not planned.